Where have I been?
nwnravenloft.com
amiaworld.net
and yes... I tried sinfar.net for a couple hours.
Why you might ask, did I leave and go to all these other servers and why come back?
Well.... each of those servers has 30 or more players at any given time.... at peak times? 50 and more.... Sinfar *cringes* gets over 100..... but, I will speak of Ravenloft and Amia.
They both offer pretty easy ways to get started on their websites. As in... a new person who wants to play can be INGAME in less than an hour..... not so on CoPap..... I have a friend who is still waiting for her email about FORUM access (2 months?)... she gave up, don't worry about her. Another finally got her Alpha server access after..... 3 WEEKS!
Now, I may be more impulsive than most, but.... if I had to wait more than a day or two to TRY a server I'd never played on, I'd keep going.
What's my point?
THERE ARE HUNDREDS OF PEOPLE PLAYING NWN IN PERSISTENT WORLDS RIGHT NOW, AS YOU READ THIS. WHY AREN'T THEY HERE????
1: They can't find us.
2: We are convinced no new players want to play so the barrier for entry is so high no one can new can get in.
3: We don't even include basic information like server IP's EASILY FOUND on the website, wiki or Forum. I am familiar with our forums and it takes me a while to find them.
4: It feels like most have given up on NWN here.... the world is dying. I hate to say it, but.... once we believe it to be dead, it is. On Amia and Ravenloft, they average a new player every week or so! They are still building and rebuilding areas! They are still making changes to their world!
Now.... why did I come back?
I like the RP I have found on CoPap. I have made some friends here, not just people I play a game with, people that if something happened to them, I'd actually care. People that if I met them in the real world, I'd really want to sit down, share dinner or a drink with them (wellll, most of them

I don't really have the answers, but, I do know quite a bit about website SEO and can and would offer my help to get us noticed, but... honestly folks, the Alpha server thing is killing new players.
Just my thoughts

-B